Showing posts with label Dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dating. Show all posts

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Are you a rule breaker?

I came across an article about breaking rules, love rules that is. It says that there are 7 conventional dating ideas that should be reconsidered. The rules are:
1. Never date a co-worker.
2. Always wait for the third (or fourth or fifth) date to have sex.
3. Rebound relationships never last.
4. Never date a friend's ex.
5. Only date one person at a time.
6. Wait for your date to say "I love you" first.
7. Couples who are in love spend all their free time together.
What I find interesting that as I read through the article I found that some of them I whole-heartedly agree should be broken. Others shouldn't in my opinion be broken. And a few of them I've broken and later wished I hadn't. So what's the secret? Can you really take advice about love? I'm an emotional person. I think things through methodically but I make decisions based on how the outcome will make me feel. Is love something you have to feel your way through? So many questions, no wonder I'm still single!!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

A sign of the times?

Everyone knows about online dating and has probably seen the ads for a plethora of different sites out there-meet Christian men, meet Gay men, meet rich men, etc. Tonight I was on Facebook and one of the ads caught my eye. (Sidebar-I have to say that I think that Facebook does a good job of keeping ads in check. It isn't the free-for-all myspace seems to be.) The headline of the ad was "Meet Men with Careers". Are men with careers becoming an endangered species? Enough that they need a specialized site? If so, I'm in BIG trouble! To be fair the rest of the ad explains itself: "If you're single, have a career and are seeking a serious relationship come browse thousands of local men at ***". Hmm.